In
the following sentence, which verb would you
choose?
It is one of those things that (happen or
happens).
When this sentence was presented to a usage panel, 74
percent said that the choice matters (writers aren’t
free to pick the verb they prefer). Then, when this
group was asked to name the correct verb, 78 percent
selected happen and 22 percent happens
(Morris 440). The majority opinion is right, but why did
so many panelists pick the wrong verb?
Panelists who chose
happens may have assumed that one was the
verb’s subject. Educated writers have trained themselves
to ignore prepositional phrases, such as of those things, when matching subjects
with verbs (because subjects never appear in
prepositional phrases). But in the sample sentence,
one is not the subject of the verb in question;
the subject is the relative pronoun that.
That is singular or plural depending on the word
it logically refers to, in this case things:
Things happen [not happens].
Nearly all
usage experts agree with this analysis, yet they have a
hard time persuading some educated writers of its truth.
Patricia O’Conner, knowing the amount of resistance she
is likely to encounter, explains the rule quite
carefully. She begins by showing when it is safe to
ignore words in a prepositional phrase and when it is
not. In the following example, which does not contain a
who or a that clause, it is safe:

When the subject is who or that, it is not safe to ignore the prepositional phrase:

The subject of say is who, which
logically refers to authors: Several authors say
it best.
After giving an analysis similar to the
preceding, O’Conner adds, “If you don’t trust me, just
turn the sentences around in your mind and you’ll end up
with the correct verbs: Of the authors who say it
best, he is one. Of the authors, one says it best”
(61).
Another way to illustrate the logic of the rule
is to contrast the constructions one of those who
and only one of those who, as in the following
examples:

In both instances, who is the subject of the
verb that follows it. In the first sentence, who
refers to writers and is therefore plural:
Several writers in the group have published a novel. In
the second sentence, who refers to one and
is therefore singular: Only one writer in the group has
published a novel.
Conclusion: To choose
the correct verb, you must consider the logical meaning
of the sentence. Unfortunately, when you do choose the
right verb, many educated readers will
think—incorrectly—that you are wrong. If you want to
play it safe, write around the problem: Helen and
several other writers in our group have published
novels.